Monday, October 26, 2009

oth speaks to my soul..

Falling in love is the easiest thing you're ever going to do. It's the most exciting this. It's the most powerful thing. That's why falling out of love hurts like hell. But falling in love, there's nothing better. It's the best it ever gets. Falling in love is easy; a lifetime of love, there's a miracle.
Relationships aren't always easy. Divorce doesn't just happen. And relationships don't just end in an instant. We all want love, to be happy, so why aren't we? Because we've become experts at sabotaging our own happiness. Feeling like victims, when in fact it's the choices we make, the bad habits, the vices, the inability to show love and compassion. These are the things that tear us down. We're not victims. We're assassins when it comes to love and happiness.
We applaud this sentiment, yet we don't change.

Sometimes we fall short of the people we were meant to be and sometimes people do things they are ashamed of. And usually, after the guilt sets in, they make things worse. Sometimes people do funny things in the face of pressure and desperation. And the truth, well the truth isn't absolute. And the truth can set you free.

Life is funny, isn't it. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and it isn't fair. I think you're a good person. Something bad happened to you and you were clever enough to see a way out. I don't think you wanted to. I think you were afraid and lost and desperate. Maybe someone lied to you, maybe someone took advantage of you or maybe being a good person just wasn't paying off.
I don't want to do this anymore.
I know, but here's the good news; you can stop. Right here, right now.

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