here's what you've been waiting for.

relationships.
relationships are waaay too complicated for me. for us. we both are on about the same page when it comes to the idea of a relationship. the label of a relationship changes things. it makes people act differently. the label of girlfriend is derogatory; the wife, the bitch, the ball and chain. i don't want that label thank you. he made such a good argument. i mean in all honesty, the label relationship changes things; it changes expectations and it changes everything. it takes away from the idea of just being. if we want to be together we should be able to just be. and i'm really glad he reminded me of that. not because i wanted a relationship but because i just wanted to know where we stood. and it's pretty clear we're standing together.