Ever-changing perspective.

It's funny you know, I used to think sex had so much meaning. It was magical. But eventually you learn that sex is whatever you want it to be. Sure, with the right person it can be an incredible emotional and connecting experience. But it can also just be a completely physical therapy for your body and mind. Sometimes we need that reassurance that we are attractive and sometimes we just need the physical release. It's just nature. And for a long time I judged people who viewed sex as a strictly physical thing but I was wrong. If you're having sex for attention or to impress people then yeah, you should consider how that will impact your psychological and emotional stability. If you're having sex because you just need sex, then by all means. Play safe and enjoy it.