it's funny. i used to worry about losing friends and people i cared about after high school. i mean i had a lot of 'friends'. class friendships if you will; people who i was always pleasant to, said hello and had a meaningless conversation just because i could. then there's those really good friendships, or so i thought. close is perhaps a better word than good.
i've kind of come to the realization that if you put in 50 percent of the effort then you've done your part. if someone else isn't willing to put in the other half, then that friendship is just not worth your energy. if you have to put more into it than you're going to get out, you're really not missing anything.
think about it.
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